He believes communication should have a clear purpose.
She uses communication to discover how she is feeling and what it is she wants to say.

He thinks that behind every conversation is a problem that needs solving or a point that needs to be made.
She sees conversation as an act of sharing and an opportunity to increase intimacy with her partner. 

He believes that communication is used to get to the root of the dilemma as efficiently as possible.
Through sharing, she releases negative feelings and solidifies her bond with the man she loves.

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My beloved is mine and I am his.

Song of Songs 2:16, NIV