choose what you think and rethink

Have you ever had a thought just “pop” into your head? In reality, thoughts either come in through your five senses and take up residence or they already live there–they own actual real estate in your brain. The Bad News: Negative thoughts that  run on a track that loops through your mind constantly bathes your… Read More

anticipatory anxiety

Anticipation. Hearing that word, many of you in my generation will think of the Carly Simon song (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=67oN0YQVgdo). I’m humming the chorus right now. But if I’m honest, for much of my life anticipation was all about worrying–“preparing” as I liked to call it. “What should I wear? What will I say? What will they think? What if he gets… Read More

what’s in your heart?

In Christ, an everyday man or woman becomes someone with the power and authority to expose the devil’s schemes to drive him out and away from all things. The everyday man or woman “in Christ” has the power to speak truth into lies, cultivate righteousness into moral confusion, and inject peace into earthly conflict. The… Read More

pre-fixed attitude affects behavior

Attitude is a state of mind, and your attitude influences your behavior. “I can’t do it.” “I’m dumb at math.” “I always make a fool of myself.” “I don’t have any talents.” “What if I make a mistake?” Does the idea of a pre-fixed attitude make sense to you? Some examples: Are you trusting or… Read More